I used to think we were a “peaceful” family. There were no slammed doors. No screaming matches. No out of control fights that spilled into the front yard. From the outside, we probably looked calm.
You tell yourself this is what adults do. The tricky part is that it doesn’t feel like a choice. It feels like survival.
When you reject your emotions, they grow stronger. Acceptance helps feelings soften and guides healthier choices.
When your feelings were unseen as a child, guilt and shame can quietly shape how you see yourself long into adulthood.
The first time a therapist used the word “neglect,” I almost laughed. My parents weren’t neglectful. They were there. They fed me, drove me to school, and showed up to my games. There was no abuse, no ...
Sometimes the deepest pain in a relationship comes not from what’s said, but from what’s left unsaid. Feeling a sense of emptiness in a relationship can be confusing, especially when there are no ...
Add DMNews to your Google News feed. Tension: We prize adult “composure” without questioning whether it stems from genuine self-awareness or a hidden emotional survival strategy. Noise: Our culture ...
You've likely heard about "neglect," but is "over neglect" a term invented by social media? While over-neglect is not a clinical or legal term, it is an experience you may have lived out in ...
Helicopter parenting gets a lot of criticism as overly intrusive and responsible for a sense of learned helplessness among young adults, but it's not often associated with neglect. Although the ...
Sex is rarely just about orgasm. It is about connection. It is about being seen in your desirability. It is about knowing your partner turns toward you rather than away from you.