I am a classic eldest daughter/recovering perfectionist and so it won’t surprise you when I say rules, systems, organization…it’s all part of who I am as a person, and how I plan any kind of travel.

Most people are afraid to break the rules. Others believe it is the only way to make things happen—they think rules are meant to be broken. Some people approach life like everything is forbidden ...

There comes a point in childhood or young adulthood when you have to figure out which rules to break. You realize that some established rule, order or instruction, is simply wrong. It’s the wrong way ...